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I have great pain during sexual intercourse and not getting wet enough

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I have had a huge problem for a while when my boyfriend and I are going to grow sex. It hurts sore both at the penetration and throughout the whole, so much that it brings the tears forward. I've completely lost my desire for sex because I know it's going to hurt. It is not always that the intercourse is being completed because of my pain. I can not really turn on any of what we do and will not get wet. I do not know if it may be that it hurts. I'm terribly afraid of having a gynecological examination, but I'm also afraid there's something wrong with my abdomen that could lead me to not being able to have children.

Yours sincerely, S

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Dear S

You tell me that you are a young, slim woman. You use birth control pills and have a regular girlfriend. For a while, you've had a huge problem because it makes insane trouble for intercourse both by penetration and during intercourse. You are afraid of an abdomen study and worry about whether there may be problems with having children. You do not tell if it has "always" been like that. But I assume that is the case? That is at least the starting point for my answer.

Of course, there is no greater comfort to know that many others have it like you. The great fear of pain is getting more and more stuck in both of you. Just the idea of ??sex may make it all possible to pull together in you. You may call it a form of "evil circle", where only the thought of the last time is sufficient to destroy the next time. Your confidence and belief that it will be successful approaches the zero point. I doubt that "it will surpass itself". Therefore, it must be committed to breaking the evil circle. Perhaps you have been doing abdominal surgery earlier? If not, you may have to start right there. Talk to your doctor about your anxiety. Together, you will be able to figure out how it can be done with that study. Although there is no likelihood that something is in the way, you must have a clear message that your abdomen is alright.

If the study shows that you are tight at the stage entrance, it may be because the mucous membrane (a mucous membrane that usually covers more or less the access to the vagina of the woman who has not had intercourse) is unbroken and in the way of attempting to enter. The opening can be so narrow that not even a finger tip can get through without hurting it. In most cases it is possible to get through. So the mucous membrane breaks, and then it will briefly soften slightly from the mucous membrane at the insertion of the skin. But it cheer up quickly and then the problem is solved.

If your mucous membrane is not broken, the doctor can handle the problem for you, by using a few small clips in the mucosa during local anesthesia to facilitate access to the vagina. Then you can have intercourse completely without mechanical hassle. But whether or not the cause of your pain is a mechanical problem, or you simply unconsciously and constantly bend into the pelvic muscles, the result is the same. It is impossible to get into the vagina. This inappropriate, almost reflective cluster, which you certainly can not make or want, you must learn to know and understand. Because it's the way to learn how to control your muscles and let go.

Before you go to the doctor, however, I recommend that you try to help yourself and get to know your abdomen. Take a mirror and find a lamp or lamp, so you can get a good light when you look at you now even below. Find out how to get the most convenient overview. Half-seated, half-lying with knees out to the sides or perhaps on the hug with the mirror between the feet. With two fingers, you stick to the side of the lips and now have an overview of the step where clitoris may be seen before. At the back you will see a small opening for the urethra and just behind this begins the entrance to the vagina where you can see the mucosa (mucous membrane) or the remains of it all around. Normally the insertion is closed, but when you go aside, it opens. Behind the insertion is the mid-meat and finally the opening of the rectum. When you are familiar with what you see, take a finger from the other hand into the vagina. It's not dangerous and does not hurt. Then you try with two fingers. If you can do it without pain and without hugging together, everything is fine.

Then try to let your girlfriend do the same to keep aside and lead first and then two fingers into your vagina. You both need to experience that it can be done without hurting you. If you have reached so far, it's time for you to try again on sexual intercourse. But give you a good time. It must be at a time when you both want it. Be sure to be completely undisturbed. You must take the initiative.You must chill long and deeply and do not attempt any intercourse until you are sufficiently wet. If it does not come by itself, use a little lubricant, oil or just a little regret. It is also you who decide how to lie - or maybe better to take care of him. Then you can direct how, how much and how long you can handle it.

Do not despair if it does not just go for the "book" for the first time, but look forward to every little progress you make on occasion. Just suddenly, it's just there. There are women who find it difficult to relax the pelvic muscles. They can not do that. But everyone can learn it. Nor are anyone who can ride the bike the first time they try. But gradually they learn to relax - and then just leave it - even without holding on to the board! Are you in the situation that maybe just the idea of ??penetration is enough for your abdomen to cling together, you may need professional help learning how to control these features. But of course it can be done. Also you get both a good and relaxed sex life and when that time comes a lot of kids!

Yours sincerely

Erik Fangel Poulsen

Specialist in Women's Diseases and Births
I have great pain during sexual intercourse and not getting wet enough

FAQ - 💬

❓ What is the most common cause of pain during intercourse?

👉 Infections. A vaginal or urinary infection can cause pain during sex. Since the body becomes inflamed when you have an infection, it can quickly become irritated with too much touch. You can take antibiotics and other medicines to reduce this pain and get rid of the infection.

❓ What STD causes painful intercourse?

👉 Common STDs, such as chlamydia and gonorrhea, can cause vaginal irritation, which can create pain during sex. Genital herpes: Blisters and sores caused by herpes can lead to pain on penetration. Vaginitis: Vaginitis refers to any vaginal inflammation.

❓ What does it mean when it hurts to have intercourse?

👉 Painful sex in women Pain in the vagina could be caused by: an infection – thrush or a sexually transmitted infection (STI), such as chlamydia, gonorrhoea or genital herpes. the menopause – changing hormone levels can make your vagina dry. lack of sexual arousal at any age.

❓ What does deep dyspareunia mean?

👉 Superficial dyspareunia is limited to the vulva or vaginal entrance, while deep dyspareunia means the extension of pain into the deeper parts of the vagina or lower pelvis. Deep dyspareunia is frequently associated with deep penetration.

❓ Can PCOS cause pain during intercourse?

👉 Dyspareunia is the medical term for pain during intercourse and it can be the result of many factors, including PCOS, endometriosis, STDs, ovarian cysts, and so on.

❓ How do you tell if something is wrong down there?

👉 Consult your health care provider if you notice:

  1. A change in the color, odor or amount of vaginal discharge.
  2. Vaginal redness or itching.
  3. Vaginal bleeding between periods, after sex or after menopause.
  4. A mass or bulge in the vagina.
  5. Pain during intercourse.

❓ What are signs of chlamydia in a woman?

👉 Symptoms in women

  • pain when urinating.
  • unusual vaginal discharge.
  • pain in the tummy or pelvis.
  • pain during sex.
  • bleeding after sex.
  • bleeding between periods.

❓ How do I know if I have dyspareunia?

👉 Pain with every penetration, including putting in a tampon. Deep pain during thrusting. Burning pain or aching pain. Throbbing pain, lasting hours after intercourse.

❓ How do you fix dyspareunia?

👉 Often, this can be treated with topical estrogen applied directly to the vagina. The Food and Drug Administration approved the drug ospemifene (Osphena) to treat moderate to severe dyspareunia in women who have problems with vaginal lubrication. Ospemifene acts like estrogen on the vaginal lining.

❓ What are the early warning signs of ovarian cyst?

👉 Symptoms of ovarian cysts, masses or tumors may include:

  • Pelvic pain.
  • Nausea or vomiting.
  • Pain shortly before or after the start of menstruation.
  • Pressure, swelling or pain in the abdomen.
  • A dull ache in the lower back and thighs.
  • Difficulty emptying the bladder.
  • Pain during sex.
  • Abnormal bleeding.

❓ What can you do for pain during intercourse?

👉 To help with pain during sex, you and your partner could try to:

  1. Change positions. If you have sharp pain during thrusting, try different positions, such as being on top. ...
  2. Communicate. Talk about what feels good and what doesn't. ...
  3. Don't rush. Longer foreplay can help stimulate your natural lubrication. ...
  4. Use lubricants.


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